Sensual Delight

Sensuality

In Relating with Heart—Passion and Purpose, couples enhance their physical relationship in three major areas: Sensuality, Sexuality and Emotional Bonding. Sensuality is as much a way of life as an activity. We are exquisitely hard-wired to experience the natural beauty that surrounds us. Across human cultures people appreciate the beauty of meadows interspersed with groves […]

How to Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship- A Fresh New Perspective?

How to Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship- A Fresh New Perspective? Physical intimacy is an essential aspect of any romantic relationship. It’s more than just a physical act; it’s a way for partners to connect on a deeper level, express love and affection, and strengthen their bond. Whether it’s cuddling on the couch, holding hands […]

Ode to Mom

Mom poster

I would like to have this forum include all forms of intimate relationships. In that spirit here is a poem I wrote after burying my mother’s ashes in the family plot, next to her mother and grandparents. Buried my mother the other day Dug a grave in the heavy red clay of Northern Alabama She […]

Speaking Up in a Way That Works

Over several decades of working with hundreds of couples we have observed that the vast majority of people are capable of being great listeners when motivated and under supportive circumstances. On the other hand, nearly all of us are shockingly inept when it comes to asking for the really important things from the people we […]

What Does It Take to Be Emotionally Strong in a Relationship?

What Does It Take to Be Emotionally Strong in a Relationship? Being emotionally strong in a relationship requires effort and commitment from both partners. It’s about being able to navigate the ups and downs of life together, supporting each other through challenges, and maintaining open and honest communication. To build emotional strength in your relationship, […]

Communication Assessment

words in mouth

Communication Assessment Many common communication styles tend to create alienation and distance, taking us even further from where we would like to be. This is true in personal relationships, as well as at work. It is interesting to consider how often political leaders resort to these tactics, thus contributing our dysfunctional and polarized political climate. […]

Are You Struggling to Keep the Relationship Strong After Having a Baby?

Strong Relationship After Having a Baby

Are You Struggling to Keep the Relationship Strong After Having a Baby? Do you feel like since having a baby, your relationship with your partner has taken a backseat? You’re not alone. Many couples find it challenging to adjust to the new dynamics and responsibilities that come with parenthood. Sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, and […]

Peaceful Partnerships: Mastering Conflict Resolution

Conflict is unavoidable in any relationship, but how you manage it can make all the difference. Learning effective conflict resolution skills is vital for maintaining a harmonious partnership. At Couples.solutions, we understand the challenges couples face and offer guidance on how to stop fighting in relationships and cultivate a peaceful coexistence through proven conflict resolution […]

Maintaining Healthy Relationships: Tips for Lasting Love

Healthy Relationship Expectations

Maintaining a healthy relationship takes effort, commitment, and open communication. It’s natural for couples to experience ups and downs, but it’s how they navigate through the rough patches that truly matters. When faced with challenges in their relationship, couples should consider seeking help rather than letting issues fester and potentially lead to irreparable damage. Consulting […]

Tips for Cultivating a Healthy Relationship: Advice from Couples.solutions

Tips for Cultivating a Healthy Relationship: Advice from Couples.solutions Having a healthy relationship is essential for both partners’ well-being and overall happiness. It’s about more than just love; it’s about mutual respect, effective communication, and shared goals. However, every relationship faces its challenges, especially in the beginning stages. Couples may struggle to navigate differences and […]

Relating can be a hassle
Even though you love them a passel
You start off real nice
But then you think twice:
Did I make a mistake?
Is there no give and take?

Joy’s hard to find
When you’re losing your mind
It’s hard to know
Which way to go
Things are so fraught
My efforts are naught
How can I make things better?

I heard about this class
And figured… I would pass
But then, I thought again
If there’s any chance to win
I oughta give it a try
There’s lots of reasons why

Much to my surprise
I found love in my partner’s eyes
Now our life’s so sweet
At last I feel complete